Need prayer for my family and myself Lost Baby

The other day I posted how I had been spotting and had great check up and Ultrasounds but a hematoma. I had just had a wonderful appt and my baby looked great. That evening Yesterday, I was eating dinner and my water broke. I rushed to the ER and while waiting the baby passed out and I am very sad to say was still moving and alive breifly and Placenta still inside attached. I know this is horrible to even tell this but I need to get it out. I can't get the image out of my head of this strong Baby, A boy, was perfect and about 15 weeks. Soon after a long painful surprising labor to deliver the placenta I bleed more than they wanted and was almost sent to surgery when it suddenly came out. I am so upset and shaken its hard to write but I had to get it out.



They have run many test but none of which I will know whats going on for weeks. Like I said everything was good and it was very sudden. I still need all the PRAYERS i can get to ensure I am going to be okay. I am very scared and I have a beautiful 4 year I still need to take care of and the bleeding hasn't stopped but overall things look good. I just need the prayers for me and the baby I lost.

There is nothing I can say, you have my prayers Sherry.

I am so sorry this happened to you... Wishing I were there in person to give you those s

Oh Sherry! I am so, so sorry for you, your family, and your baby son. Please don't worry about saying whatever you feel like you need to say about this. I know there is very little we can do for you except pray, but we can at least give you a safe place to talk. I had a miscarriage a few years ago, and although it much earlier than yours, I know it devastated me. I can't even imagine how much harder this loss would be, so much later in the pregnancy, and to see him alive... I am crying just reading about it, much less living it. I will of course pray for you and your family and son.

We are here for you to talk, vent, cry, whatever...and you have my prayers. I have been where you are, and if you need a shoulder i have one.

*hugs* I am soooo sorry!! Don't worry about what you let out. We are here for you! We care for you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and thoughts.

I wish I had words to make it better, of course you have my prayers. I cant say I know how you are feeling, but I can say I will listen if you need to talk.

Thoughts and prayers sent. I share your pain Hun. I know how hard miscarrying is, I missed carried in July, was deeply depressed. I with drew from all activities besides the basics day to day stuff. One day while surfing the net I found a prayer written by a mother coping with her miscarriage:

Father God, I come to you in pain and despair. I do not pretend to understand why you took this child so soon. The death of this child has left me hurting and overwhelmed with grief. I long for the return of my child that miscarried; please help me to accept Your will and Your way. Please Father, help me to give this child to You to hold until we are reunited in Your presence.

Help me to choose to give You my hurt, anger, and sadness. Help me to receive Your peace, comfort, and healing touch. Help me to trust and believe You will heal my pain and restore my joy. Grant me the strength to deal with the changes in my body, the rages of hormones, and roller coaster emotions. Strengthen me to deal with the grief that threatens to overwhelm me.

Help me to accept the fellowship of others who seek to comfort me. Help me to share my grief with my husband in a manner that will please and honor You and let this tragedy draw us closer to each other as we draw closer to You.

Give me a garment of praise for my mourning and replace my despair with Your rest (Isaiah 61:3) (Matthew 11:28-29). Oh Father, please wipe the tears from my eyes (Revelation 21:4). Hold the key to my heart. Amen




I added a few links that helped me.
http://www.epinions.com/content_4867072132 great story
http://www.ourmiscarriage.com/home.html
http://www.pioneerthinking.com/aw_miscarriage.html
http://www.epigee.org/fetal/coping.html

I'm crying with you Sherry. I'm so sorry you had to go through this again.

Although nothing can ease your sorrow... please know that you and your family are in my prayers.

I am so sorry! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!

I feel so sorry for you and will keep you in my prayers.

Sherry, I am so sorry this happened! Prayers have been and will continue to be said.

Oh Sherry, I am so very sorry. I will be praying for you and your family.

We are here to support you in any way we can. Please vent on us, hugs to you!

I am so very sorry.

terrible, sad news.... I am so sorry~

I am so sorry you are going through this. Please know you have a lot of support here to help you get through. We are here if you need to vent, cry, rage, anything. I will be praying that you are okay.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have been there myself a couple of times, and I know it is hard. Try your best to look at it positively. God was taking care of this child, and trust in him it was for the best. Keep strong and talk all you need to.

I am so very sorry for the loss you are suffering. I also experienced a similar miscarriage- please allow yourself all the time you need to grieve. Nothing is more difficult than the loss of a child. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.