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Post by thebigscott Sun Jun 01, 2008 4:57 pm

Now that a day or so has passed, and you have had a chance to calm down, I'd like to ask you to review the posts you made the other day. I have been debating on the best way to bring this up. I considered writing you both a PM, but since your posts were public I think we need to address the issue publicly.

Darby, I love that you went to all that effort to help the Canadians and I so appreciate it. And that I hope you'll come back and continue to be an active member and post more. But your recent posts included yelling and name calling. We would never let another member call you names, so we need to ask the same from you. We should all behave with dignity. I'd like to invite you to reconsider your posts, look back through them and see if you can edit them so that they are not yelling or insulting to other members.

Mrschia, you have been a member longer than Darby. I am asking you to also look at your posts from the other day. Although you did not include the actual word, it was clear that you were calling Darby a rude name. I am not asking you not to defend your opinions or your right to express them. But I am asking that you edit the post to simply say she was being rude.

At this point, no one is being banned, no threads or posts are being removed, and the moderators are not editting the members. But we won't allow further incidences to occur.

I hope that we can all find ways to work out our differences in a respectful way.

And to everyone else, I am asking that you not use this board as a means to attack others. It's supposed to be fun, not hateful.

And speaking of fun, you are all invited to a Bzz-party Tues. No occasion, just a chance to have fun.
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Post by mrschia Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:09 pm

I am sorry. I will act my age and not my shoe size Very Happy I was just caught so off guard. I am so Embarassed Embarassed

Changes have been made. Embarassed


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Post by itsirC Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:10 pm

What a great response Karen. I love how our UB moderators are open-minded and able to react to these type situations in a respectful way.
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Post by Was64 Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:16 pm

It is a very good idea Karen and I think it should be directed towards everybody here at the UB to go thru their posts and remove the yelling and name calling. It is more than just a couple people doing it. Not pointing any fingers its just my own opinion.


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Post by idatater46 Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:24 pm

Wtg- handled wonderfully in my opinion. A lot of people (including myself) find their mouths moving before the brain engages fully. A lot of things can be said in the heat of the moment that we wish we could take back. Congrats to MrsChia- we all need to more like that and be able to say sorry. I"m Sorry- those two words come out of my mouth a lot!!!!!! lol!
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Post by Guest Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:27 pm

Kudos to Karen and the rest of the mods on addressing this issue!!!! I only want to have fun here and no name calling. As Sesame Street taught me long ago, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all." hee hee hee.

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Post by tara Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:09 pm

Mrschia, no reason to be embarrassed at all.


Is it still okay to call Chelle names?
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Post by thebigscott Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:12 pm

tara wrote:Mrschia, no reason to be embarrassed at all.


Is it still okay to call Chelle names?

For Chelle, we will make an exception.

And on a serious note, this was not just me. I just volunteered to put out the post. All the mods were in agreement. We waited only to give time for those involved to calm down.
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Post by itsirC Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:42 pm

Good call on the exception for Chelle....don't know what I'd do if I couldn't call her names Laughing

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Post by chelle Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:45 pm

thebigscott wrote:

And on a serious note, this was not just me. I just volunteered to put out the post. All the mods were in agreement. We waited only to give time for those involved to calm down.

she is right we did agree Smile



On everything except THIS! :

thebigscott wrote:
tara wrote:Mrschia, no reason to be embarrassed at all.


Is it still okay to call Chelle names?

For Chelle, we will make an exception.


Was that the super secret PM??

I thought I was gettin a present...
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Post by Rebecca1340 Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:50 pm

Thaks to everyone for handling this like adults. Yet another reason why this board rocks To Darby and Mrschia, et al 812984
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Post by Honey Sun Jun 01, 2008 7:22 pm

I am asking this in all seriousness, did I say anything that needs edited? I feel like in the BeeLog when they say people are lying about Dave and Joe, I think they mean me. I said the most about them, but I don't think I crossed any line did I?
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Post by kath Sun Jun 01, 2008 7:51 pm

Honey.... you need to stop worrying so much and have fun!

You are a nice person who has opinions... nothing wrong with that!
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Post by brandiland73 Sun Jun 01, 2008 7:55 pm

Thank you for addressing this. I was actually put off and a bit miffed so I could not read all the posts and even debated leaving alltogether. But Boy....That was an expensive move as I went online shopping :-)

If I have said anything that was taken the wrong way....just slap me silly and lets start over.
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Post by chelle Sun Jun 01, 2008 8:01 pm

Okay, as the chief disipline officer I am now taking numbers for who needs punishment.

Tara, I belive you are first...
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Post by brandiland73 Sun Jun 01, 2008 8:13 pm

SPANK YOU VERY MUCH!! Cool
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Post by Honey Sun Jun 01, 2008 8:51 pm

kath wrote:Honey.... you need to stop worrying so much and have fun!

You are a nice person who has opinions... nothing wrong with that!

Thanks kath, I think I needed that. Off to have more fun Wink
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Post by itsirC Sun Jun 01, 2008 9:17 pm

chelle wrote:Okay, as the chief disipline officer I am now taking numbers for who needs punishment.

Tara, I belive you are first...

Oh, Oh, Oh, what does she get? affraid

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Post by chelle Sun Jun 01, 2008 10:26 pm

Nope, same thing I do to my kids when they are really bad.

She has to clean my house.

and since there are 6 of us, and 2 dogs and a cat, we live in the country and noone here could pick up anything if their life depended on it ( and belive me, there are times when I threaten their lives for the messes) its not a cake walk.


So y'all better behave! Smile
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Post by Scarlett Mon Jun 02, 2008 12:39 am

Apparently I missed some stuff... which is just as well.

I'm sorry if things got out of line here between members.. it's hard when the moment is heated.

*hugs* Mrschia for being woman enough to step up to the plate and apologize!

God bless,
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Post by tara Mon Jun 02, 2008 12:07 pm

chelle wrote:Okay, as the chief disipline officer I am now taking numbers for who needs punishment.

Tara, I belive you are first...

Probably Embarassed

But... just so you know, I am one of those weird people who like to clean. You all have to leave, I'll crank up the stereo and minus the wondows (lol) you'll have one clean house, for a few minutes.
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Post by itsirC Mon Jun 02, 2008 6:47 pm

tara wrote:
chelle wrote:Okay, as the chief disipline officer I am now taking numbers for who needs punishment.

Tara, I belive you are first...

Probably Embarassed

But... just so you know, I am one of those weird people who like to clean. You all have to leave, I'll crank up the stereo and minus the wondows (lol) you'll have one clean house, for a few minutes.

You like to clean? What is wrong with you? lol. So when are you coming for a visit? Smile
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